,women only,,,,been searching a long time?

Just wondering if i have wasted alot of time trying to find someone to love,i thought i was doing everything right,worked hard was very good at running my company retired at 40 as i promised myself i would,living on my 16 motor yacht to have owned and i spend my time traveling the east coast (snow birding)I see so many woman that seem to be the greatest and they have been hurt so bad they want give no man a chance i think thats a shame.I know a woman real good right now going though that mess with a jerk two kids and she is young her, life a mess,he is already playing agan and she is stuck at home the next 18 years raiseing those kids.I never could figure out why i never found a woman that just stepped onboard and told me to take her out of the s hole we call regular life and into somthing a lot less hectic it seemed to be a good idea but never came to be .Am i just wasteing my time looking for this woman or what??