My amazing guy friend feels unwanted so he wants to change.EMERGENCY! I need to stop him before its too late.?

Sounds almost like what I went through. And honestly, I'm doing a lot better than I was before. Sometimes to start a new, one has to cleanse by fire. I pretty much left my past life and never looked back. I lost contact with 90% of my friends because I was ashamed of what I was about to become. I lost a lot of people I knew and loved but it had to be done. I make a lot of jokes about girls wanting s on Y!Answers but face it, its reality, you nice girls can sit there and stare me in the face and tell me that its not true, but the fact really is, more girls out there like the jerks than the nice gentleman. Its happend to 4-5 of my friends and countless others. Chivalry died alright, but its the ladies holding the bloody knife.